This might really turn him on and could even instantly make him erupt like a volcano. Clever tricks to make you feel powerful, and drive him crazy… There's going to be a whole lot of manly chest in front of you to play with, so why not paint your nails bright red to match your siren red lips and tap into his secret sex fantasies? Roll your guy over so that you can mount him. Make sure that you are both turned on. Then you can ride him into oblivion! Don't forget to get him involved too. Establishing this kind of connection in the woman on top sex position can be incredibly hot, and it gives you the opportunity to communicate with him through facial expressions, dirty talk, or even just a simple smile that reminds you that it's still just you and your man having great sex, with nothing to feel intimidated about. Then slowly use your hand to guide his hard penis into your vagina.
The Final Secrets to Riding Him Like a Queen Don't forget not to overthink things. Just use the power of your voice and. If you want to wow him with this position, then you have to get the mentality right. What he wants to see is that you are enjoying yourself, completely. And so the questions begin to flow… Soon you're not thinking about your own pleasure anymore at all because the whole thing is stressful and tiring — you had no idea he had to work so hard! He doesn't have to just lie there while you do all the work, you're going to start getting tired pretty quickly if you're not used to being on top, so get him to help you.
The more turned on you can get his psyche, the harder his penis will be and the more pleasurable an experience he'll enjoy when you are on top of him. . Men are visual, the sight of you bouncing up and down on top of him is going to send his straight to heaven, trust me! He can lift you up and down with his hands underneath your butt, or he can pull you down onto his penis with his hands gripping onto your hips. The whole point though is to be in control and enjoy yourself. Give it a go, sometimes stepping into a bit of role-playing can give you that extra confidence you need.
That's a prerequisite to riding a guy correctly: he simply must be rock hard and turned on completely, if he's just 80% erect, that doesn't cut it and doesn't make this position you being on top enjoyable to him. Remember if you feel good, the chances are so does he! Don't rush into anything, keep the penetration steady, vary your movements so that he doesn't get too excited too quickly. He will feel like you are his hot dominatrix lover or a sexy secretary. You can go for sexy lingerie, bras that give you a lot of sumptuous cleavage, bras that are made of sheer material so that he can see your erect nipples poking through. A lot of readers asked us about this so we decided to share how. Try shallow penetration so that the head of his penis slips in and out and you can feel that wonderful ridge of his on the lips of your vagina. The imagination is a powerful aphrodisiac.
So smiling and moaning loud with a wide open mouth are things that will turn him on and make him feel sexy because he feels he's the one making you feel this good. Of course — all of this is impossible to do if he's not rock-hard. How will you know if you are hitting all the right spots? Does he like it at this angle? Especially if you can seductively whisper some dirty words into his ear. Being on top is sexy because it wreaks of power — even though you will probably feel vulnerable, exposed and be lacking confidence in your technique. Every man has fantasized about having a sexy woman on top of him raking his chest in ecstasy with her pointy red nails — there's just something fetishistic about it. You can even take it to the next level and leave on your heels! The Take his fingers and out them in your mouth… suck on his fingers seductively, put them deep in your mouth as if you are giving him the perfect, most erotic blowjob… or even bite on his fingers naughtily and moan loud while you ride him faster and faster. The key is that you seem as if you can't even control yourself from the ecstatic pleasure you're getting from being on top of him.
If you stroke him in the opposite direction you could end up fracturing his penis! The truth is that a man's orgasm begins in his mind, not just between his legs. How fast should you go? It's not that difficult to get a guy off once you get going, so focus on getting yourself off first. Most importantly focus on building up your pleasure. He can rock you back and forth… You can take the pressure off your legs too by using his thighs or chest to lean on. How to Have Sex in the Woman On Top Position Don't worry it's not rocket science, just follow these simple steps so that you've got the basics, and then go with what feels good. If your guy sees you basking in the glory of riding his Big Fella all over the bed, then that alone is going to send him over the edge, you won't even need technique! Try bouncing up and down — but not too hard — it might snap! Try rotating your hips in circles to see how it feels.
Will it hurt him if you bend back a bit? Sure everyone knows that the woman on top sex position puts the woman in control of her own sexual pleasure, but it also gives you the responsibility for providing your man underneath with pleasure. He should be hard and you should be wet. And if you want to take it a step further, arch your back, hold onto his legs while you ride him fast but do mix up the tempo occasionally , and see if he enjoys choking you gently, take his hands and put them around your neck. Do you have the right attire? Follow these tips to get yourself feeling sexy and in control… 1. Don't be afraid to look him straight in the eye. Remember, the main attraction of the woman on top sex position is that he gets to see you in all your glory.
Move up and down until you have teased the head of his penis through the entrance of your vagina. When you are too self-conscious and nervous during sex, a guy can feel it, you can't relax and you can't enjoy yourself. Basically, this is the time you use him for your own pleasure — and that's precisely the part he'll enjoy most: seeing how much pleasure you can get from him being rock hard inside you. Once he's in you might want to move up and down along the length of his shaft slowly and purposefully, tilting your hips slightly when you push down so that they rotate and you can feel him rubbing all the right places inside of you. Just keep in mind that it's not designed to handle all of your weight by itself.
Don't be afraid of letting your breasts bounce either, that's the sort of thing that will turn him right on! You can hover, brushing against the tip of his penis with your clit if it feels good for you, you can kiss his chest, stick your butt up in the air, even go down and give him a bit of a suck if he's not as hard as you'd like. Once you're straddling with one leg on either side, you may want to tease him a bit before lowering yourself entirely onto his penis. This is definitely the position to satisfy any man who loves to look at breasts, so make sure your breasts are looking their best! Woman On Top Attitude The first thing in learning how to ride a guy is amending your attitude. The secret about riding him is being selfish. . .
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